Guess who paid my mother a visit today? He stayed about 15 minutes, and made all sorts of criminal accusations about me, and had the nerve to ask for "the rings" - meaning engagement and wedding, I guess. My mother said since I paid for them (he said he would pay me back - hah!), I did what I had to, with them, to start paying off the credit card bills he so kindly ran up. He left after about 15 minutes, and she went in the house to call and alert me that he was not in Ohio, where we thought he was, after the 424 phone calls he made to me July 5-7. Anyhow, I am thankful that she is safe, and she is thinking, if he is so inclined, he might be driving here. If he drove straight through, he could do it by midnight tomorrow (July 22 - early in the a.m.) I will be at my lawyer's office in the morning, and stopping by to ask the police to make a few extra trips around my neighborhood the next few days.
Rays and prayers on the way....is it ever going to end? I hate that you have to watch over your shoulder. Stay safe friend....
Oh my goodness...rays headed your way! Stay Safe!!
Sending you mega rays and will send mega prayers too. Do keep safe, and let us know that you are ok so we won't worry too much about you. If you need anything at all YELL. We will hear you.
Darcel :pray: :heart: :heart:
1) Double check with a lawyer in your state - in most, the rings are considered gifts and you don't have to give them back.
2) Do you have an alarm system? Do you live alone (well, besides the Yap Patrol!)? If they so much as SNEEZE loudly at night, hit 911 and tell them someone is outside your house. TELL THEM you can't tell if that's a gun in his hand!!! That will get the cops there in a New York MINUTE!!! TURN ON EVERY LIGHT IN THE HOUSE!!! START YELLING AS LOUD AS YOU CAN!!
Julia, we all LOVE YOU!! DON'T TAKE ANY CHANCES!!! BETTER TO BE THOUGHT OF AS A NUT CASE WHO GOES OVERBOARD THAN A VICTIM OF THIS GUY!!
Karen :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:
Oh, man! How awful that you are having to STILL deal with him. Be careful and be safe. Rays certainly going your way. Did he do this to his other ex-wife?
Dammit - I HATE being too busy to post and keep up.
What did I miss, and who must I hurt??!?!? :verdict:
Julia...so so sorry that this stinker is still bothering you......please be very careful and cautious.....hopefully he will not make the trip to your house. He needs to just disappear!!!!! By the way....my neighbors are Italian and they have connections....I could call them if you want...just let me know :grin: :grin: ps: I hope he doesn't keep bothering your mom!!!
Julia, praying much for you. This Turkey doesn't know the meaning of NO. Perhaps as a precaution, until you KNOW he's out of the way and on his way....hopefully back to jail...send Brekke and Robinton over to Brenda's house. This idiot sounds crazy enough that to get back at you, he'd stop at nothing, including hurting those you love. Be safe, sweetie. This nightmare has got to end sometime.
Hope you have a gun and know how to use it these sickos is the only way to get though to them to leave you alone I go with the Italian crew to take care of him cement shoes always works. If not into guns can you rent a couple of trained Dobermans for a little while that would be a big surprise to him if he came over,you could always say your Doxie's grew up. Be very careful do hope you have an alarm system where you live. Hugs & Rays to you Patches,Buddy & Papbouv
My very young looking 40 year old neice almost had a break in at her house + she travels allot on her job she went to classes now she is legealy packing a gun every where she goes.
That is scary! Please be very careful!! We will definately be sending you all the extra prayers we have!
I'm starting to think the Italian crew might be the best way to deal with this bozo :violent1: . Stay safe.
Merion & the ZZ's