for me. If you knew what my personal life has been like for the last 5 months, you could write a novel, or a made-for-tv movie. I can't go into too much detail, but I am staying at a friend's house, I have a restraining order in place and filed an amended one yesterday, and my aunt and I kept an appointment with a lawyer yesterday. Brekke is safely away from my house. The locks and codes will be changed today, and I am not residing in my home currently. I will check in when I can.
Take care, Julia. I am glad that everyone is safe. Sending out rays and prayers for an end to your ordeal.
Glad to hear you are safe and taking every precaution possible. Rays and prayers coming from Iowa.
Rays coming for you.
Rays coming to you.... Hope everything works out for you... EmmyLou sends puppy kisses to you and Brekke....
Rays to you and Brekke, Julia! You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Dee
Oh Julia! You and Brekke don't deserve this. :confused: I am so sorry. Please know we are all here for you, you take care of yourself and little Brekke!!!!
Many prayers and comforting rays coming your way Julia. Please continue to take care of yourself. Hugs and smoochies to Brekke.
Julia - you are in my prayers and we are sending massive Texas rays that you are safe. Please keep us posted, or check in with someone who can. We are here for you - please know that -
Glad to hear you are safe. Please know that you are not alone and that there is help out there. We all are here for you. Wish I was closer and could help. Please be careful and take care of yourself and Brekke. You have friends and loved ones that will be here for you if or when you need us.
Mel
Julia,
We are sending HHHHH's & PPPPPP's for you and Brekke. :heart: Just remember we are here for you if you need us. Stay safe!!!!!
Merion & the ZZ's
Rays and prayers headed your way from San Diego! Please keep us updated. :comfort:
You've taken the first, we are here when you need us just make sure you both are safe.
Roberta
Julia,
Prayers from Western WI too!!
If there is anything we can do let us know!!! I am also sending messages to Rainbow Bridge for the DC and Weiner Writings gang to get busy as your guardian angels!!
I don't want to stress you any further BUT be sure to be extremely careful and cautious!!! This could be the most dangerous time for you, and we want you to be as safe as you can!!!
Auntydoxzz
There was a hearing today, and he has 60 to 90 days incarceration. There will be a second hearing on the 13th for his original restraining order. I will be contacting a lawyer for an annulment as soon as possible...
Thank you, everyone, for your prayers and well-wishes. They are most truly needed. He had a lady judge and a lady bailiff today, so I am sure he was not charmed. The judge told him to stay away from my vicinity for a minimum of 90 days.
My heart is truly breaking for you and Brekke. I'm so sorry. You are deeply in my thoughts and prayers.
Julia you and Brekke are in our thoughts and prayers sending lots of rays!!! Stay safe!!
Julia, I am SO sorry to hear all of this. Having met you, I know what a sweet and kind person you are, I can't imagine you going through something like this. Will keep you and Brekke in my prayers. Hang in there kiddo.
Julia - I am so sad you are having to deal with this. Now you need to focus on you and Brekke and getting on with your life. Stay safe and know that we are here for you. If you need a place to run away to - come on to Texas !
Hugs to you and soft smoochies to Brekke -
I am so sorry you and Brekkie are having to go through this! Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help!! I'm glad you and your baby are safe. :comfort: I'll be praying and sendng mega rays your way.
:pray: Rays and prayers going west :pray: be safe and take care of yourself. Brekke girl, be good now and keep mama warm and happy. :heart:
If at all possible moving out of the state you are into another state is a great idea if he does not know where you are he can not do much about it.Sounds like he will come after you if he gets the chance some men just do not take no for an answer.
Prayers from OK & wishing you well.
Papbouv
Sorry, I have been out of the loop for a while.
Sending lots of rays and hugs your way :comfort:
Prayers for you and Brekke to stay safe!
Dawn
Has anyone heard from Julia? I know she's busy, but I'm worried about her.
Hi, Delia and everyone! I have parent/teacher conferences this week, so I am busy, and I've been busy compiling a "novelette" for my lawyer. They will be with me at the restraining order hearing on Tuesday at 8:30, and I am seeking an annulment, which under the circumstances, would be the best and easiest route to take. I have no idea how long the process will take, but I have already been enjoying a week of peace and calm because I don't have daily arguments with someone because of medication or lack thereof. I have been falling asleep for an hour or so, as my "boardinghouse manager" and I watch Jeopardy, Wheel of Fortune, and our silly soap operas. People at school tell me I look about 15 years younger (it's the feeling of relief to be away from the situation!)
Thanks for checking in. You sound like you've got things under control and the worst is behind you. I guess the hardest part was getting to the point where you decided to call it quits.
Yes thanks for checking in Julia I've been worried about you and Brekke too. This has got to be a nightmare still but at least you have the ball rolling and are on your way out of this mess! You just never know about people!!!
I really hope the process goes quickly for you! I'm so happy you are safe and able to move on. Please know we are all here for you! :comfort:
Julia, thank you for letting us know you are okay. We are all here for you and are glad to know that you and Brekke are safe and sound. Hopefully a very swift annulment is in your future :thumb:
Julia I am glad that you Brekke are safe. Please take care and keep in touch!
It is supposed to be foggy tomorrow, but my lawyer wants me at the courthouse by 8. The judge has called the hearing for 8:30, but they warned me that security is sometimes out the door if you wait until almost 8:30 to try and clear it. I have 62 pages of emails, journal entries, and credit reports, plus receipts, so it is a novelette, for sure.
Please let us know how things went today :xfinger:
I'm with Cheryl, hoping things went well today. I still can't believe you are having to go through this!
Julia, I'm just reading this now. I'm so sorry you have had to go through all of this. I am glad that you and Brekke are safe and ok. Rays coming to you from us!