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Title: Sad News
Post by: Kari on January 13, 2006, 07:03:52 PM
Drew and I went for our sonogram yesterday, and unfortunately they couldn't find a fetal heartbeat. We went to a separate location to have another sonogram with a more advanced machine just to make sure and the results were the same. They are doing some bloodwork right now, and I will be having a D&C on Monday or Tuesday. We are both so sad...it just broke our hearts. This is the second time this has happened. Any thoughts and rays you could send our way would be appreciated.
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Post by: BridgetLouise on January 13, 2006, 07:48:40 PM
Mega thoughts and rays headed your way.  I'm so sorry for you and Drew.
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Post by: Jacqueline on January 13, 2006, 10:02:02 PM
So sorry to hear this, you have my thoughts for future blessings.  Mega rays coming your ways.
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Post by: Lisa Frederick on January 14, 2006, 02:41:37 AM
so very sorry to hear this! you are in my thoughts and prayers!!
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Post by: Krista on January 14, 2006, 05:32:57 AM
Oh Kari.  I'm so sorry.  I'm sending big hugs and prayers your way.
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Post by: Barb on January 14, 2006, 07:11:53 AM
I am so sorry - rays and prayers on the way.  Be strong - we are here for you. Hugs to you both.....   :comfort:
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Post by: Ruth in MT on January 14, 2006, 09:06:33 AM
Kari and Drew,
I am so sorry for your loss. 
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Post by: Leslie on January 14, 2006, 02:41:42 PM
oh no!  That's really sad.  I'll keep you all in my prayers. 
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Post by: Sandishooligans on January 14, 2006, 05:56:59 PM
I'm so sorry.  Please know both of you are in my thoughts.  Very sad.
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Post by: Roberta on January 14, 2006, 07:31:26 PM
You are in out thoughts, keep your chin up.
Roberta
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Post by: Brekkesmom on January 14, 2006, 07:34:23 PM
Thoughts and prayers headed your way!  We are so sorry for the pain and disappointment you are dealing with, so hug your furkid and sending rays for a better day!
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Post by: winniesmommy2 on January 14, 2006, 09:40:06 PM
 :pray:my prayers are with you and your husband...may God give you comfort and peace... :heart:Linda lou
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Post by: lucylu on January 15, 2006, 05:39:28 AM
I am so sorry!! I can feel your pain. Are you taking folic acid? It is suppose to help prevent miscarriages. If your not taking it now, ask your doctor about it. They sell it at walmart. Start taking it now and the next time you get pregnant, it may be a success.
Rays and prayers are headed your way.
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Post by: Jenny G on January 15, 2006, 06:49:33 AM
I'm so sorry, Kari.  Lots of rays and hugs to you and Drew.
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Post by: Krista on January 15, 2006, 08:03:48 AM
I'm sure Kari was taking prenatal vitamins or an alternative supplement approved by her doctor containing folic acid.

It seems that a lot of people don't realize how often miscarriages occur. Of all confirmed pregnancies, 15 - 20% will actually end in a miscarriage.  Even more pregnancies end before the woman even knew she was pregnant.    Out of every 4 women who experience pregnancy, 1 will face a miscarriage in her lifetime.

Miscarriages are extremely sad and even traumatic events.  Knowing they are common does not make the pain any less, it just lets women know they are not alone. 

Kari, I am deeply sorry for your loss and am praying for you.
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Post by: KathyP on January 15, 2006, 10:32:37 PM
Kari, my heart goes out to you and Drew. How very sad. Nothing anyone can say or do will make the pain go away. But know that I hold you in my thoughts and prayers.  Sending hugs and rays.........
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Post by: LUVMYGUNNER on January 16, 2006, 06:41:32 AM
Sorry to hear of your lose. :comfort:
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Post by: MindyKay on January 16, 2006, 07:01:14 AM
Kari, I'm so sorry hear hear of your loss.  The same thing happened to me in 1984 and had to have the D&C on my birthday.  I will be praying for you.
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Post by: TerriL on January 16, 2006, 10:17:02 AM
Kari, please know that you are in all of our prayers and thoughts.  It's hard to know why these things happen.  I hope that the support and love of family and friends will help you through your sorrow. 
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Post by: Beth on January 16, 2006, 03:16:43 PM
Kari, I am so sorry to hear that.  I know how upset you and Drew must be.  Three of my friends have gone through the same thing.  Sending rays and hugs to you.   :comfort:
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Post by: April on January 17, 2006, 07:57:03 AM
I'm so sorry Kari!  My thoughts and prayers are with you and Drew.   :comfort: :sad11:
I know hearing that won't make the pain any better, but please know we are here for you if you need someone to talk to or encouragement or anything at all. 
Title: Re: Sad News
Post by: Jen on January 17, 2006, 12:52:48 PM
Kari I am so sorry... we will be thinking of you and Drew.  :pray:

Jen & the Crew