If you can...

MyLittleBoo · March 30, 2008, 09:39:02 PM

maybe send me a few good luck rays... It seems that we are doing good with having no deaths in a few weeks(knock on wood)... But, now due to some forseen reasons, my husband and I are divorcing.. I had my suspicions, and proved them this afternoon... I just can't believe he would do this to our family!!!!

I am more worried about our children though.. This will be very hard on them...

So, if you have a few for luck... I am hoping this will go smoothly and quickly for all our sakes... This is my first marriage and divorce, I just can't believe it... His father knows about it, as I talked to him tonight, and will be here in the morning with me to explain to him that he needs to leave the house.... I just hope it will be peacefully, our kids will be in school, so they won't have to witness anything(but, let's hope it don't go that far.) Cross your fingers for me and my children.... I am sorry to be asking, I am just really confused and stressed right now, and I know these rays are special..... Thanks all....

Merion · March 30, 2008, 10:30:56 PM

Sending HHHHHH's & PPPPPPP's to you and your family. Hope all goes smoothly!!!!
Sorry you have to go through this after all you have been through recently.
Merion & the ZZ's

sollysmom · March 31, 2008, 12:05:52 AM

Here are mega rays, prayers, hugs, and loving thoughts coming to you and your babies at this time. I pray that your hubby will do the right thing in the right way.

Darcel

Roberta · March 31, 2008, 01:25:35 AM

been there done that, just keep your chin up and remember YOU are better than that, and you will be get there and be a stronger person (not that you think that at present).
Hugs and rays and remember we are there for you.
Roberta Nick and the gang

Sadiesmom · March 31, 2008, 02:06:35 AM

Many prayers and thoughts going up for you today. I remember that day. Just know life does go on. And things will get better. HUGS .

Carrie.

Teresa · March 31, 2008, 05:04:24 AM

I will definitely be saying some prayers and sending some doxie rays to you. I heard someone speak on the subject of being a single mom after divorce just this weekend at a women's conference. I almost bought her book, thinking I might need it for someone sometime. In the next couple of weeks, if you would like, I would be more than happy to get one and send it to you. I hope things go smoothly today for your sake and for the kids sake. Please check in with us later. You have lots of friends here.

Kari · March 31, 2008, 08:10:46 AM

Thinking of you right now....sending rays your way.

Barb · March 31, 2008, 08:22:08 AM

Tara - so sorry you are having to go through this. Know that we are here for you to listen anytime. Be strong - you can ! hugs to you -

cheryl186 · March 31, 2008, 08:55:39 AM

Oh my gosh Tara...many comforting hugs and prayers to you and your children

If you need anything at all, we are all here for you. Praying everything goes well this morning.

jillkilleen · March 31, 2008, 05:57:47 PM

This is never a fun situation. Been there SURVIVED that. Let me tell you doggies can be a great comfort! The most important thing to remember is that YOU are important, and everyone deserves happiness, to feel secure, and have a good life! ou ahve to take care of yourself. Remember this is a teriffic place for help and understanding!

Jenny G · April 01, 2008, 11:16:01 AM

So sorry you have to go through this. Sending lots of rays your way. As a person who has gone through the big D, remember time heals all things! It's probably hard to believe that now but it's true!

LUVMYGUNNER · April 01, 2008, 06:42:58 PM

Rays and prayers

for you.

Frankys_mom · April 01, 2008, 07:44:21 PM

Oh, Tara, I'm real sorry to hear this! Sending lots of strength your way. Hold onto your beautiful kids & furry friends & Wiener writing friends & you will get through this.

Dawn

MyLittleBoo · April 06, 2008, 01:47:02 PM

Thank you all for your good thoughts & prayers... I think I am still in shock and trying to figure out where to go from here... I will be moving this summer so I can start school in the fall... My youngest thinks it is cool that her old mom will be going to school while they do... lol I am in the middle on this whole thing though, I don't want to lose the security and be alone, but at the same time, I am excited to start fresh... I was a single mother for 3 years until I met my husband, and I haven't been alone in almost 11 years, so this seems strange to me... I know it is possible, but now I have 4 kids instead of 2, so it will also be harder... Teresa, that book sounds great, as I said, it's been awhile since I was a single mother, so any advice and help would be great... So, if you would like, maybe send me one and I will pay you for it... I just have no idea what to do next until my kids are out of school next month... I guess until then work and save up for the big 5 hour move... College here I come... lol Never thought I'd say that at 33... Thanks again to you all, you guys are the best!!! Hugs to you all... Give your babies belly rubs for me....

Teresa · April 07, 2008, 08:15:57 AM

I'll pick up the book this week and put it in the mail. Consider it a gift. I think you deserve one right now. Just PM me your address so I know where to send it. I probably have it from the Christmas cards, but since I'm packing, I'm not sure where that is (most likely on the computer now that I think about it).
The school option sounds exciting, though scary. I went back to school at the age of 30, but only had to go for a year. I loved it and really enjoyed getting to use my brain again and the challenge of studying. Meghan was in the third grade then and thought it was interesting that I had more homework than she did. What will you be studying?

MyLittleBoo · April 07, 2008, 10:56:00 AM

Oh, thanks soo much Teresa!! You are great!! I will be studying Business Administration, it will take around 2 1/2- 3 years.. I will graduate a year before my oldest graduates highschool... lol I am pretty excited about this, it's like a fresh start for me, and I swear I will never fall for the ones that start out nice and turn mean again, the only man I need in my life right now is my son... Thanks again... I will PM my address to you... Give the girls a belly rub for me....

Barb · April 07, 2008, 11:01:38 AM

Hang in there Tara - sometimes a brand new start is not a bad thing. We are here for you !

MyLittleBoo · April 07, 2008, 11:05:36 AM

Thanks Barb!! You are sooo right... I think this will turn out great... It's nice to have such great friends on here (even though we've never met)... You are all wonderful!!!

Beth · April 07, 2008, 03:55:43 PM

Tara,

Rays coming for you and your kids. Everything will work out ok.