Need to ask for some good thoughts.....

Barb · December 26, 2007, 09:09:13 AM

I hope everyone had a good holiday and is looking forward to the New Year. I am !!! Once again, we are a 1 human, 2 doglets household. Things have not been good between Jimmy and I - we just grew apart and wanted different things. I am looking forward to the new year and moving ahead. Puppers can feel stress, even if you feel like you are doing a good job of hiding it. We will be fine and I think they will do much better as time goes on. They had a fun day yesterday, but were exhausted noodles when everyone left !!!! It is rainy here today, and I am sure they are snuggled in snoozing the day away while I am at work !!!

Just asking for a few good thoughts our way as we move into the new year ! I have 2 extra bedrooms that I am sorting through and cleaning out, then painting and once again will have a guest room - Woo Hoo !!! So if anyone is down Texas way - would love to have you stop in !

Jenny G · December 26, 2007, 10:34:37 AM

Mega good thoughts coming your way! I was in your shoes 2 years ago (gosh-has it been that long?!?!) and can certainly empathize. And yes - the puppers do pick on the tension and anxiety. Mine are much better off now and we are a finally happy household!

MimisMomma · December 26, 2007, 12:08:50 PM

More good thoughts coming from Nebraska! The pups will be there for you I am sure. And it sounds like you are keeping youself busy too that helps. We're here for you!!!

Kari · December 26, 2007, 03:38:48 PM

Thoughts and rays headed your way for a great start to 2008!

Amy · December 26, 2007, 04:23:26 PM

Just stopped in to post news about Maria and saw this. I'm so sorry you're going through this Barb. I know that you're going to come out the other end a stronger woman for it. There is no way you'll come out any better though, because you're already the BEST!

Hugs!!

MyLittleBoo · December 26, 2007, 05:48:23 PM

Good thoughts coming your way, Barb... Hugs & puppy kisses....

Jeri · December 26, 2007, 06:31:16 PM

If this must be, then I pray it is the best thing for all of you. Hugs to all of you

Merion · December 26, 2007, 07:34:08 PM

We are wishing you the Best for the upcoming year. May things be much better for you.
Merion & the ZZ's

Brekkesmom · December 26, 2007, 07:43:28 PM

Wow! Best wishes for another strong woman! I know that Brekke is much more relaxed now, and she definitely seems more her little lovable self than she was for most of the summer. She is really snuggling hard these days, enjoying Mommy-time.

Sadiesmom · December 26, 2007, 10:34:32 PM

Prayers for strength and courage. And that the next year will be a much better one.

Roberta · December 26, 2007, 10:43:41 PM

You will make it though, if you need a top up of encouragement let us all know. It happened to me a long time back and it made me a stronger person, so my poor Nick ( met about 7 yrs later) got all my stress over trusting again.
roberta

Jenny G · December 27, 2007, 07:11:25 AM

Barb- I was wondering if you've read the book Eat Pray Love by Liz Gilbert? A friend of mine recommended it just after my ex and I split up and it was a complete life saver! It totally turned me around and helped me get my head on straight! If you haven't read it, I highly recommend it!

Barb · December 27, 2007, 07:23:24 AM

Quote from: Jenny G on December 27, 2007, 07:11:25 AM
Barb- I was wondering if you've read the book Eat Pray Love by Liz Gilbert? A friend of mine recommended it just after my ex and I split up and it was a complete life saver! It totally turned me around and helped me get my head on straight! If you haven't read it, I highly recommend it!

No I haven't - but if you recommend it - I will head to Barnes and Noble at lunch today !!! Thanks so much !! I know your situation a few years ago is similar to mine - so I appreciate the information !!! Thanks so much !

Leslie · December 27, 2007, 08:59:26 AM

%$!_+"<(?*&^:#@9#!!

That said, I'm sure this is a positive thing for you in the long run. But the short term it's gotta hurt.

Rays, Prayers, Good Vibes and Hope coming yer way from Pennsylvania.

*&!<{+&^%#!

TerriL · December 27, 2007, 01:45:59 PM

Barb...I just read this post and I'll be keeping you and Rudy and Brandy in my prayers. Everything does indeed happen for a reason but it sure can be tough sometimes. Hugs to you and the furkids. Take care of you my dear.... please email if you need to talk.

Delia and girls · December 27, 2007, 03:16:59 PM

I'm sorry about you and Jimmy, Barb. It sounds like it's the best for both of you, though.

cheryl186 · December 28, 2007, 09:16:58 AM

Barb, so sorry to hear you are going through this. Praying for a Happier New Year for you, Rudy and Brandy. God Bless you all!

Mike · December 28, 2007, 10:59:53 AM

Sending wishes for a great new year and new start to life. (Gee, I wonder why I was unsure of how to address your card...)

Barb · December 28, 2007, 12:25:23 PM

Quote from: Mike on December 28, 2007, 10:59:53 AM
Sending wishes for a great new year and new start to life. (Gee, I wonder why I was unsure of how to address your card...)

LOL - well why didn't ya tell me ?!?!?!? You must have felt the vibes throught the weiner board - HA !

Barb · December 28, 2007, 12:26:56 PM

Thank you for all the kind words, my friends...... Jenny, I got the book and will start reading this week end.

Wishing everyone, human and fur a very Happy New Years and a great 2008 for all of us :thumb:

Jenny G · December 28, 2007, 12:34:15 PM

Quote from: Barb on December 28, 2007, 12:26:56 PM
Jenny, I got the book and will start reading this week end.

Yea! I got to meet Liz Gilbert at a book signing - love her! Here we are:

Barb · December 28, 2007, 01:30:49 PM

very cool Jenny !

DeeanDave · December 28, 2007, 04:20:45 PM

We are all here for you Barb! It's tough but you're strong and 2008 will be a better year for you! Use us for support! Hugs to you! Dee

Clarese · December 28, 2007, 08:13:42 PM

Barb, here's wishing you the very best of all the new year has to offer. You deserve it!

David C. · December 28, 2007, 09:42:14 PM

Wishing you a much better year. Have a wonderful 2008.

Sandishooligans · December 28, 2007, 11:37:13 PM

So sorry to read this news. Make the best of every day. Each day will get better. You have a friend in me. Email me any time.

PattyInAK · December 31, 2007, 03:33:33 PM

Oh geez, Barb, I am so sorry to hear this, but sometimes (a LOT of the time) its for the best. I don't know Jimmy but I have a good feeling about how you are. You are so nice and sweet and giving. I hope with the support of your friends (especially here) and the comfort from Rudy and Brandy, that you will be OK. The house is yours, right?

You really should call my sister Barb sometime, when you're feeling up to it. Her daughter, Christina, just got transferred to Manhatten for work. Really exciting, but I think my sister might be feeling lost without her kid close by, even though Christina has been living on her own for a couple of years now, those two were always somewhat joined at the hip. Christina just left yesterday for New York. Barb still works for the Container Store, but I think she is in a different location now.

Hang in there, my friend. These things are always hard to go through, right or wrong............been there. But we come out stronger at the other end. If there is anything I can do, please just ask.

Need to ask for some good thoughts.....

Sandishooligans